Brighton Gardens (Wednesdays)
by Jim Plautz on 05/04/16
This is my weekday ministry, probably typical of what is done by Catholic parishes throughout the country. I attend 9:00 AM Mass to get the Pyx/Eucharist blessed and to pray that I will be a worthy messenger of God's Word.
Brighton Gardens has a large ALF section, Skilled Nursing and a Memory unit. Another Eucharistic minister does the ALF residents, I do skilled nursing and the memory unit.
The skilled nursing is a one-on-one ministry with new people every week. I found 4-5 in their rooms, but nost are in the activity room or re-hab. There are two women, Susan and Betty, that have been there for 18 months; neither can speak and sometimes they don't open their eyes, but they hear me. They stir when I say the Lords Prayer, ask them to stay close to the Lord and pray, and give them a blessing. Sometimes I believe they are the primary reason I'm there.
I hear it all. Some are so thankful that I visited; others could care less. One man today was playing dominoes and didn't want to be bothered. Three women, Christians, but not Catholic, were happy to pray with me and receive a blessing and tell me that they pray to the Lord every day. I offered a blessing to the 5-6 physical therapists in the re-hab room and one man agreed they needed it. It's surprising how many nurses-assistants and therapists pray along, or listen, when we say the Lords Prayer.
Today was a very sad day, and a happy day, for me in the Alzheimer's unit. Bob Goodman passed away Sunday. This is what I told the 15 or so residents gathered in the music room. My father, and brother, are named Bob Goodman, so this man was special to me. We mourned his passing and prayed that he has been accepted into God's Kingdom, and is now in a better place, praying for us as we pray for his soul. Most of the people did not remember Bob, but almost all of them have faith and understood that Bob went to a better place, at least I believe they did.
I gave Communion to about 10 Catholics and blessings to 40 or more residents, most of them Christians.